The Right Way To Dress For A Funeral Service

Death is an unwelcome visitor but it is inevitable nonetheless. The least we can do is bid a final farewell to the deceased in a respectful way. While tradition dictates that you wear formal black attire to a funeral, it is often not easy to decide what to wear exactly. But with some planning and understanding of the occasion, you can attend a funeral looking tasteful and appropriately dressed.

In recent years, many people have opted to have “fun” funerals or hold parties instead of traditional services. If this is the case, please contact the family or use your best judgement and dress accordingly. You may not want to wear a black dress and fancy shoes. However, you can always dress up with the intention of dressing down.

Wear the Right Color For the Funeral Service

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Black is usually the accepted color at funerals worldwide, unless the family states otherwise. If there are no instructions, then it is safe to assume that you can wear black and white (or grey). For example, a white shirt paired with a black pencil skirt is an easy choice. 

Here’s What You Should Wear to a Traditional Funeral

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At a more formal, traditional funeral, you may be expected to wear black dress clothes (buttoned suit for men, dress for women). At most funerals, the expectation is to be dressed formally and elegantly. 

Don’t Wear Anything Too Casual

Some looks are too casual for such a serious and somber occasion. You don’t want to come across as flippant or disrespectful. An absolute no-no would be anything you would wear to a beach or a casual outing or to a party. Work uniforms are inappropriate, as well, and should not be worn unless they are clean and it was impossible for you to change clothes. For women, even if the weather is hot, it is better to have shoulders covered and to sport a modest neckline and dress length. 

How to Wear Makeup/Jewelry to the Funeral

Keep your makeup simple. Foundation, a bit of blush and black eyeliner should suffice. Avoid bright lipstick, if any at all. As with clothing, your makeup should not make you stand out. Jewelry is fine as long as it is kept to a minimum- a simple necklace and a pair of small earrings are enough. 

Cover Your Knees for the Funeral

If you are thinking of wearing pants/dresses, then make sure to cover the knees. Remember, you cannot wear any shorts or miniskirts for the funeral.

Colors You Can Wear Other Than Black

If you don’t own any black attire or you just don’t like black, you can opt for navy blue, charcoal gray, forest green or dark brown. You can choose a white blouse or shirt to wear as your top with a navy blue blazer. The skirt of your suit should be of reasonable length (preferably below the knee) or you can wear a short skirt with black leggings.

The Right Shoes for the Funeral

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Shoes are difficult as it will all depend on location, time of year and situation. Typically you can get away with simple flats. High heels are to be avoided but mid-level heels are fine. It is good to wear black shoes, but anything dark that matches your clothing will also do. Make sure to give your shoes a good shine before you leave the house!

Try This Black Chiffon Dress

You can wear something similar to this black chiffon dress, as it is simple, elegant, and classy, without showing too much skin.

This Lace Black Dress can also be an option

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You can wear this beautiful lace black dress paired with gloves, hat, and black shoes for a simple and elegant look. 

A Midi Dress Can Be Perfect for the Funeral

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You can wear a black midi dress too for the funeral. The one in this picture is perfect for a funeral service that is not too traditional. It is fashionable and right for the occasion.

Wear Pattern at the Funeral Service

Don’t go for anything too busy. Plain is always better for a funeral. If you’re wearing patterns, make sure it does not draw too much attention. 

A Hat Is Always a Good Idea

This is a perfect occasion to wear your favorite hat. Hats give a polished look and will complete your ensemble in a classic yet stylish way. Keep in mind your hat should not be gauche or outlandish.

Wear the Right Sunglass

If you are going for sunglasses, don’t go for anything massive, fancy or with lots of embellishments. Something simple that fulfils its purpose will do.

Try This Long Sleeve Swing Dress

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Try this long sleeve swing dress, which will be perfect for both the funeral and the memorial service. Pairing it with black stockings will complete the look.

Look Like Katherine Jenkins at the Funeral Service

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Katherine Jenkins looks elegant in this dress as she attends Baroness Thatcher’s funeral in St Paul’s Cathedral. You can sport this look too, and will certainly look your best in it.

For more ideas check out our men’s and women’s guides on dressing for a funeral.